Healing crystals are a staple of metaphysical and new age practices. If you’ve ever wondered why people use them, and how, this article should answer your questions with a complete guide to using crystals to attract and get women.
The unique crystalline structure of different stones gives them a special energy that we can sense and benefit from. The specific properties of different crystals have been described by traditions, in some cases hundreds of years old.
One of the most popular applications is chakra healing and balancing. This article offers a practical guide for beginners to harness crystal energy and help attract romance.
How Crystals Can Help You With Attracting Women
The most direct approach to attracting women: rose quartz. Put simply, this lovely pink crystal works to bring love into your life. Not only romantic love, but also love towards yourself. So while you’re attracting potential partners, you will also see a positive effect on your own self-esteem.
Rose quartz is the primary crystal associated with the heart chakra and is very widely available, but there are a few others that also work to attract love.
Rhodochrosite and rhodonite are two more pink stones you can use. However, you may prefer the handsome deep green swirls of malachite, another heart chakra crystal. Or green aventurine, a crystal that brings not only love but also luck and prosperity.
Smooth talk and persuasion:
To avoid getting tongue tied and keep the conversation flowing, you want a crystal associated with the throat chakra. Sodalite is a great choice, relatively inexpensive and easy to find. This deep blue stone will help you express yourself eloquently and avoid any misunderstandings. If you find yourself not knowing what to say, or putting your foot in your mouth, this crystal will be a great help.
Energy and endurance:
If you’re looking for an infusion of pure passion, Carnelian is the crystal you need. This firey red stone is associated with lust, energy, exuberance, and passion. Turn to it whenever you want that extra push, and you’ll be sure to make a lasting impression.
Citrine is sometimes called “the stone of success.” It imparts tons of confidence and can push you to achieve whatever goal you set your mind on. If you want an edge to seal the deal, this golden crystal is a wonderful choice.
Staying down to earth:
In order to stay grounded, smokey quartz is the best choice. It opens and activates the root chakra, causing you to feel secure and stable. Remain calm and collected no matter the situation. Women won’t be able to resist.
If you tend to get nervous, a very powerful crystal called lepidolite will be your new secret weapon. It has the most calming and soothing effect and is recommended for anyone with anxiety or depression. Even if you’re only dealing with a less serious case of nerves, why not take advantage of this extremely effective stone.
Eventually, you may come across rejection. But it’s important not to feel discouraged. Hematite is a powerhouse of absorbing and dissipating negative energy. Use it to keep your spirits up and your next success will be right around the corner.
You can use the crystals mentioned above in combination to address your specific goals and needs. You don’t have to use them all, either!
I recommend using a heart chakra crystal (rose quartz or malachite) plus a couple others to play up your particular strengths. For instance:
- Carnelian plus smokey quartz works well to give you a magnetic appeal.
- Sodalite plus lepidolite is a great combination if you’re naturally shy.
- Hematite and citrine will give you unbreakable confidence.
Where Can You Buy Crystals?
You can purchase crystals inexpensively at new age/ metaphysical stores, some museums and gift shops, craft stores, or of course online. A small polished stone is a great choice because you can easily and discreetly keep it in your pocket.
Larger more decorative pieces can also be used, or you can even find some crystals used as gems for jewelry, keychains, and other accessories.
Malachite is especially suited as a romance-attracting stone for men because it has such a regal and masculine appearance, and it won’t look out of place if you don’t want to explain you’re using it for its metaphysical qualities.
How To Use Your Crystals
Now that you’ve picked out some pieces, you might be asking “so what do I actually do with them?” Well, there are a few ways to work with healing crystals.
If you meditate, it’s easy to incorporate the crystals and meditate with them.
If you’re new to crystal work though there are easy ways to harness their energy. Hold your crystals and feel their energy, while focusing on your goal. Envision what you want the crystals to assist in. Then, carry the crystals with you or place them nearby so you can continue to benefit from the energy as you go about your day. This simple routine will bring real results!
Over time, working with your crystals, you will embody the qualities you desire and feel the extra boost in your love life. Give it a try! You have nothing to lose, and everything to gain by using crystals for attracting and getting women!