Why I’m Encouraging You To Change To Attract And Keep Women

Sorry - You Gotta Change To Be Happier

“I don’t have to change to attract women! That’s bullshit!” – That’s a message I got from one subscriber when I sent out the last newsletter. It talked about the last two articles on this blog, which are about developing skills to become more interesting or attractive to women.

No…You don’t have to change, but if you don’t, you won’t get anything other than what you are getting right now.

  • If you have no success with women, then that will stay the same.
  • If you end up scaring women away, then that will stay the same.
  • If you use manipulative tactics that cause you to end up in unhealthy and unhappy relationships, then that will stay the same.
  • If you view women as negative, miserable beings, then women will still be negative, miserable beings tomorrow, next week, or maybe even a year from now.

It’s simple. No change equals no change. Change equals change. If you want something that is not there now, you have to change.

  • Maybe that means you have to step out of your comfort zone and sign up to a dating site.
  • Maybe that means you have to develop confidence.
  • Maybe that means you have to be better with money.
  • Maybe it means you have to develop the ability to write love letters that show how romantic you are.

I don’t know.

But the point is there are a million ways you can change and make things different in your life and, ultimately, have more success with women.

I’m Not Saying YOU Are Wrong

I want to make it clear – When I say that you become more attractive and interesting with the more you know, the more talents you have, or the more hobbies you pursue, I’m not saying that the YOU now is not a good person or talented. I’m just saying that there is always room to become better, more aware, and more attractive or interesting.

That applies to you, to Brad Pitt, and to anyone else that you think has it all together. Change can benefit everyone.

The point of this blog is to give you tips, tricks, and insights into what women are looking for in men, as well as help you become happier with or without a woman. Self-improvement makes you more attractive and happy, so why wouldn’t I talk about it?

Some Skills Aren’t Going To Attract Women

Just as a side note, some skills are not going to impress a majority of women. For instance, you may be really good at manipulating a yo-yo, but that’s not something that is going to draw women in because it is not interesting to a lot of women.

Change Is Happening To You Right Now

Change is happening whether you like it or not. You may not think that you are changing or will change, but it happens. Your experiences and daily choices change you in small and big ways.

Here’s my opinion – you can embrace change and use it to help you get the life you want, relationship you want, personality you want, happiness you want – and anything else that you want but don’t have – or you can call bullshit.

The choice is totally up to you.

Just as importantly, the choice about WHAT you change is up to you.

Sure, you can change who your favorite movie star is, but why not take the reins on things more important, like how you approach life or how willing you are to go after what you want?

This Blog May Change, But Change Will Always Be A Hot Topic On It

If you think change is bullshit, then you will not want to read this blog anymore. I firmly believe in change.

In regards to relationships, change has helped me stop dating losers, stop negative relationship habits, and made me a more attractive and interesting partner to my husband.

What you change (or don’t change) is up to you. I just want to give you some suggestions on what changes could have an impact on yourself and your ability to get women.

  • Matt

    I look around at the women these days and don’t see a reasonable return on all the hard work it would take to get them. I’m older and have zero interest in getting involved with someone who I can’t have a family with.

    • Thanks for your input Matt. I hope you find a woman to have that family with.

  • Carlos

    About the yo-yo: if you use it to draw a heart… it can be useful hahahahaha 😉
    cheers.

    • Haha, yes – I’d like to see that myself.