Right now you may feel panicked, scared and completely heartbroken, but do not despair because this is not the end, top secrets will be revealed on how I got my ex back. Don’t worry these methods will not require you to get a six pack over night or do anything too outrageous they are actually very simple and practical methods that any guy can use strategically to their advantage.
Do you want to learn how I got my ex back?
If you are sitting in a position where the words “my ex gf” gives you knots in your stomach and you feel completely sick and nauseated at the idea of her with another guy, then this article is for you. One thing you need to know is that you are not alone right now, I have your back and I want everyone who is reading this to genuinely end up back together with their ex girl of their dreams.
Many guys right now all over the world, from all different walks of life are in the exact same boat as you are in. The only difference is that they have not stumbled upon this site and they may do all the wrong things and end up pushing their ex away even further. You on the other hand are exactly where you need to be, you are in the right boat and hopefully it will all end well and the two of you can ride off in your boat into the sunset together.
The method that I used to get my ex gf back
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Let me start by saying that this was a step by step process that took time, patience and lots of anxiety. Although it felt wrong to calculate a plan to get her back, I knew that this was honestly the only way that I would have a chance. I reminded myself that I was doing this because I loved her for all the right reasons.
The steps that I took:
I broke off all contact with her
I broke off all contact with her for a set period of 2 months. This was honestly the hardest thing that I ever had to do. I was used to speaking to her every single day at least a few times a day too. When I broke off contact with her, I told her that I would be doing so and I said that I thought it was best if we both had some space. I was very mature about it and I didn’t act needy or insecure. I felt the total opposite but I didn’t let her see what a mess I really was.
I maintained no contact with her
For two solid months, I made sure that I never emailed her, phoned her or sent her a text. I stuck to this rule no matter what. I told all my friends that I needed support and that if I went out drinking they needed to keep my phone far away from me. Drunken texting is the way that I knew I could mess this up. I stayed strong and my friends helped.
I made sure that I took her off my newsfeed so that I couldn’t see what she was doing. I also made sure not to post too much so I kept everything very generic and private. In addition, I made sure that I never went to any parties where I could get caught in a picture with other girls. I didn’t want her to get the wrong impression of what I was doing. In fact, I stayed far away from other girls too. I posted very little and made sure there was nothing anybody could misinterpret.
I worked hard on myself
I worked hard on myself, I spent the two months working on myself and this was really difficult to do. I had too much extra time on my hands that I didn’t know what to do with and I didn’t want to spend that time obsessing. I joined my local gym and spent every day working out. I made new friends at the gym and decided that this was a great way to look good, to feel better and to keep out of trouble. I also signed up for a college course I had always wanted to do.
I spent time getting rid of all the jealousy which I had inside of me. I spent many hours with the punching bag until my knuckles were raw, but it was actually very therapeutic. I focused on gratitude and mindfulness, not obsessing over what i could not have. I also never acted single during this time I kept my mind focused on her and I looked at this like a temporary break up. I was very positive that I would get her back, maybe my attitude helped too.
After the two month period
After I had successfully lived through the longest two months of my entire life, I went in for the kill and I made contact. I did this in a very mature way by giving her a phone call, and politely asking if we could meet up for a coffee and a chat. I gave her no indication what this chat would be about, but I acted very calm and cool.
When she agreed to meet up with me, she was very surprised at how well I was doing. I told her how I made changes, joined the gym and I let her know that I had not pursued any girls in the two months since we had been apart.
I sincerely apologized for everything that I had done and I assured her that if she gave me another chance, that I would not make the same mistakes again. I think she could see how serious I was. She could see I was not just talking, and I told her about the college course I had finally enrolled in which I had always spoken to her about it but never actually did it.
I never made her feel pressured at all and I told her that she could take her time to think about it. She told me then and there how much she had missed and that she would love to give it another chance, she went completely soft on me and started crying. From that moment on we have never been apart since.
This worked for me, it is important to understand that each girl is different. You could customize this plan according to your ex and make up a unique place that works for you. The important part to remember is to stay strong, stick to the plan and to remind yourself each day why you are doing it. This is my true story of how I got my ex back, I hope you will soon be able to encourage people with yours.