Top 6 Reasons Women Moan In Bed

Why Do Women Moan In Bed?

Do you ever wonder why women moan in bed? Not a whimper, not a scream, but a moan. Apparently a lot of guys do! So, if you are one of those guys, let me tell you exactly why women moan in bed.

Top 6 Reasons Why Women Moan In Bed

Moan: a long, low sound made by a person expressing physical or mental suffering or sexual pleasure.

1. It Feels Good

Moaning is usually associated with pain or sorrow, but don’t worry – moaning in the bedroom is not a sign that she is feeling pain or sorrow with you…unless she is gagged and can’t tell you how she is feeling – then you could possibly be causing her pain.

You better work out a safe gesture for that.


Moaning is a natural sound that women make when they feel really good. If you make a woman feel that good in bed, then she may not be able to help herself and a moan may come out.

However, a natural moan during sex is not going to be extremely loud. A scream would be loud, but a moan will be soft to medium in volume.

2. She’s Seen It In Movies

In a porno, women moan loud and long. So, when women watch a porno – that guys tend to really like – they think that guys want to hear them moan like that too.

In fact, they think that if they don’t moan, their men won’t think they are as turned on as the women in the porno.

Bottom line: She could be moaning loudly because it’s what she thinks you want to hear.

3. She’s Pretending To Have An Orgasm

Women also moan during orgasm – but usually only when they are pretending to have one. It is a way to ‘put on a show’ and make the orgasm believable.

I can tell you that I have never heard of a woman naturally moaning like they do in the movies during orgasm. Of course, I haven’t heard every woman in bed, but I’ve talked to plenty of women and read the statistics, and it all lines up with what I’m saying.

“…recent studies have indicated that most [female copulatory vocalization] FCV in women does not accompany their own orgasm, but rather their partner’s ejaculation.” – Wikipedia

  • Some may whimper.
  • Some may scream in surprise.
  • Some may make no noise at all as they tense up and release.

But a moan is usually reserved for something that feels nice, not intense. An orgasm is intense.

In other words, moaning is pretty standard for faking an orgasm.

4. She’s Trying To Let You Know It Feels Good

You can tell by her body movements and sounds that she is enjoying sex, and she knows this. So, when she wants you to know that she is enjoying what you are doing, she will moan.

In fact, if she wants you to keep doing what you are doing, she will moan.

Moaning can be a sign that you are doing something right.

5. She Wants To Encourage You To Keep Going

Some aspects of foreplay can be pretty boring, and women know that a moan here or there will help you feel like you are doing something right and boost your confidence a bit. It’s an easy way to convey that you are doing a great job and you should keep putting in the effort.

6. She’s Trying To Move Things Along

If she’s starting to get bored, feel pain, or get anxious to do something else, then she may moan to try and move things along.

A woman will moan during the act of sex to help her man get more excited and reach orgasm. It’s her way of helping him feel good about what he is doing by letting him know thatshe is feeling good.

How Do You Know Which Moan Your Woman Is Making?

So, women moan for both real and fake reasons.

I want to clarify that some women may naturally moan louder than others, for whatever reason. How can you tell which of the above 6 reasons is causing your woman to moan?

First, remember that real moans are generally quietly done when something really feels good. So if you are purposely trying to make her feel good, and she lets out a soft to medium volume moan, then it is probably real.

Other than that, you have to have sex with her more than once and get to know her natural behaviors in bed.

Once you get a feel for how she acts in bed, you will be able to tell if she always moans in bed or only on occasions where she is in a rush or not feeling good (that’s a good thing that she’s trying to move things along).

If you feel that her moan is fake, don’t call her on it. She is most likely trying to make you feel good in bed, and if you call her on it, she will feel like her efforts have failed.

You don’t want to make her feel bad, you just want her to be real.

Therefore, tell her how much you love the fact that she can be real with you in the bedroom. The more you assure her that being real is all you want, the more she will be real.

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  • They want to make you cum faster. Any woman will tell you, that most sex isn’t that satisfying and often women fake it to make it. Their cries of love making wonders, often are really just the sounds of a woman who wants to get some sleep. She wants you to get it over with already, but you just keep pounding away at her. So she takes the easy road and starts to yell loudly, about how amazing you are or how big it is. Screaming out that she can’t take it anymore, followed by the inevitable ohs and ahhs of a faked orgasmic experience. But in reality, she just want to make you cum.

    • Definitely one reason…

    • Tina


  • Tina

    I definitely moan for these reasons. I’ll explain 1. I moan bc I’m showing my husband what he’s doing feels good, I want him to go harder, faster, be turned on by moan so it amps him up to give it to me real good! Faster deeper the better. But that comes at a cost. When I really moan it turns my husband on to much and he cums so I tone it down not getting it how I like it bc my moaning and gesturing for him to rail me makes him Finnish. So I keep pretty quiet let out a few sounds when I want it faster. But when I’m bored and so done, I will spread wide apart… Hold his face and say (while grinding my teeth) omggggggggg yes yes yes …. F it, f it, f it…. Fffffffffffffff give it to meeeeeeee and boom 5 seconds flat… I got my way and its over lol. But … When I orgasm my husband has to put a pillow over my mouth bc I can’t stop how loud I get I cannot control how good it feels and I scream. He gets really mad bc I have 4 kids, and when I cum I can’t help it moans comes out and he gives me this look like STFU . like a look like omg r u serious right now. Shut up! Like a disgusted look. But when kids are at school he wants me to freaking rip the roof of screaming. Ugh! Gotta go. I’m horny lol

    • Djay

      Damn Tina I wish I could fuck you

  • P.K.Barick

    Interview more women to know the reason of moaning.

  • @P.K.Barick – He doesn’t need to interview any women.
    He seems to have his shit straight LMAO this is all so true for me, and what Tina said about the being extremely kinky and vocal is also true with me when she says she’s trying to get it over with and just go to sleep. XD
    So, basically, this guy seems to know his women lol.

  • This article is so inaccurate. I am 21, f, and I moan loudly when I am deep in orgasm — via foreplay or actual sex. I don’t fake my orgasms either. While I know a lot of women do, which is the only thing accurate on here, my moans are real and they’re loud; not quiet. Neither are dozens of women I know/am friends with.

    • I appreciate that your moans are loud, but what exactly about the points are inaccurate? You are telling me that women don’t moan because it feels good (orgasm or not), or they are trying to encourage their man to keep going, or they are trying to speed things up, or they are pretending to have an orgasm, or they think it’s what they are supposed to do, or because it feels good? You are really trying to tell guys that women do not moan for those reasons at all? God, I hope not.

      If you don’t take into consideration that all of those points are valid, and women do moan for those very reasons – along with orgasm, then you are telling guys that a moan means orgasm – period, which isn’t always true. But, if they believe that, then they are going to believe that they are bringing their woman to orgasm, even when they are not, and they will never try to work on giving their woman a real orgasm because they believe they already are. You are cheating a ton of women from real pleasure by telling guys that all moans equal orgasm.