You couldn’t convince me that the law of attraction is bogus if you tried. I have seen it work consistently in my own life, and I know that it is working consistently in yours.
Maybe it is not the law of attraction…maybe it is something else like mind-body connection; however, whatever it is, it is working right now in your life, and the law of attraction seems like a good name to give it!
How many times have you said, “I knew that THAT was going to happen!” Unless you are psychic, how could you possibly know that what you expected to happen was going to happen? (Or, do you believe in being psychic, but not the law of attraction?)
It’s funny how many of us will believe in certain things, such as the placebo effect, miracles, God, divine intervention, or the supernatural, but won’t believe in something like the law of attraction.
We pick and choose what we believe in until we actually have an experience to tell us otherwise. But, I think if you think about it, you will see that you have attracted positive and negative things into your life on an ongoing basis.
It’s interesting to note that many successful people believe in the law of attraction.
Expectation Is The Key
Expect: Regard something as likely to happen
The law of attraction says that what you think about the most will come into your life. It says that like attracts like, and by focusing on positive or negative things, you can bring about positive or negative results.
However, it goes beyond what you think about; you have to expect it.
The law of attraction is not about granting wishes and magically dropping things into your lap. It is about bringing experiences into your life that align with your beliefs. Your expectations come from beliefs.
I’m not an expert on the law of attraction, but I know with certainty that expectation is the key to attracting what you want (or don’t want) into your life. I’ve seen it over and over again in my life, my friend’s life, and everyone else’s life, and I know you have too.
For example, I’ve seen people expect to get better from disease and then get better. In fact, I’ve seen it firsthand in my family.
My dad, who has Lupus, has ‘magically’ cured himself from many issues simply because he expects that his mind is strong enough to do so. Interestingly, he doesn’t believe in the law of attraction – but he does believe that his mind is powerful enough to rid him of serious issues that are happening in his body (that should land him in the hospital or the morgue), and he expects it to work – and it does. (He doesn’t believe that he can cure his Lupus, but I would love to see what would happen if he did!)
I’ve also seen people expect to get sick and, guess what? They got sick!
The Law Of Attraction And Attracting Women
So what you are you expecting with women? Are you expecting to fail with every woman you meet? Are you expecting to scare women off with your physical or mental characteristics? If you are, then you will get the results you expect.
You may not get them when you first meet a woman; for instance, she may find your lack of self-confidence cute and want to help you see the true attractive qualities you have. But eventually she will be turned off by the very thing you expect.
How can you expect more out of yourself and your interactions with women?
1. You can become more confident in your attraction abilities. By learning how women think, what women want, and why you are such a great catch, you can expect to succeed with women thanks to all of your knowledge.
2.You can talk to yourself differently. For instance, when I ask you if you could pick up the next woman you see, what would you say? If you say ‘No, because…’ then you are talking to yourself in a negative way. You need to talk to yourself differently, psych yourself up, and acknowledge that there is a possibility you could land the next woman you see. Once you start to talk to yourself differently, you will change your beliefs about yourself and your success with women, and you will start to expect different interactions and outcomes.
In the end, the law of attraction is here to stay, and whether it is the mind-body connection or the universe sending you what you want, you will find that you will get the results that you expect. If you expect to be unsuccessful with women, then you will attract unsuccessful experiences with women into your life over and over again. Therefore, try expecting more out of yourself and your interactions, and the results will change.