I had a point in time when I always attracted the wrong guys to me. I didn’t want those guys; I wanted guys who treated me right and would make me happy. Unfortunately I got the exact opposite.
I can clearly see what that was now. I had blockages that were holding back the perfect guy from coming to me. Sure, I could easily attract the wrong men, but when it came to men that were of a higher energy, I wouldn’t allow them into my life.
We Are Meant To Receive What We Want In Life!
Having what you want in your life is your right. You are not meant to live a life of unhappiness or agony. There is an abundance of good things in this world waiting for you (and everyone else as well.)
If you keep attracting bad women into your life, it is because you are blocking your path to the good women with limiting beliefs. For example:
- I don’t deserve a good woman
- I always attract bad women that use me
- I am not meant to get the perfect woman
- There is no such thing as a perfect woman!
- Relationships are meant to be hard and unhappy
All of these things are blockages in your path to getting the woman you want, and until you eliminate them, you are going to keep getting the same thing.
What Do I Mean By Blockages?
I mean things that hold you back from resonating with your higher self.
If you had no blockages in the way, you would move along life making positive decisions, moving towards success, and feeling good about your days. Can you say that you are doing that? If not, then you have blockages.
These blockages hold you back from making empowering decisions and taking risks and going after what you want in life. They keep you stuck and unhappy, and you attract the same things into your life over and over again (like bad women!)
How Can You Recognize Blockages?
Usually, you can tell what is blocking your happiness in life by paying attention to what you say. And usually the blockage is hidden after the word ‘because’.
- I can’t attract women, because I am a loser!
- I attract mean women into my life, because I have no backbone!
- I’m scared to approach women, because I feel like they will reject me.
Can you recognize your because statements?
Can you see how they are holding you back from getting the woman you want?
For instance, telling yourself that women will reject you is based around fear. How will ever start to approach women with confidence in this case? You have to change how you talk to yourself in order to remove that blockage and start approaching women with confidence.
As I said, you need to change the way you talk to yourself. You can do this is a few ways:
1. Positive Affirmations
Start talking to yourself differently. Be more positive in your self-talk. Instead of saying can’t, won’t, or shouldn’t, say things like can and will! By ensuring you remove negative words from your self-talk, you won’t be able to talk to yourself in a negative way!
2. Get Rid Of Naysayers
Do you have anyone in your life that makes you feel unworthy of women or unable to get women? Get rid of them! Remove them from your life or, at least, distance yourself from them. The more they talk in your ear about who you are, the more you will believe it! You can’t expect to remove blockages on your path to getting a perfect woman when you don’t believe you can.
My husband had a friend like this before I met. He was constantly telling him how he wasn’t a ladies’ man, and even though my husband was getting hit on by more women then that loser, he believed him! That is the power that ‘friends’ and family members can have over your thoughts and beliefs and, ultimately, your life!
3. Use Visualization
Start seeing yourself as the man you want to be. Visualize yourself getting a good woman and having her fall head over heels in love with you – or something else if you want.
Have you ever heard the expression, ‘everything that happens in life starts as a thought first’? Why not think about positive, fun, exciting, and awesome things? Why not make sure that you are always focused on what you do want to happen instead of what you don’t want to happen?
As Blockages Start To Fade, You Will Start To Shine
When you see that you are starting to remove blockages, and experiencing the benefits from it, you will keep moving forward easily.
- You will feel good about your experiences with women
- You will attract good women into your life
- You will look forward to meeting new women and interacting with them
- You will become more attractive to women!
In short, you will start to live the life you were meant to live.