Some people believe that there is only one soul mate out there for you, while other people believe that there are many soul mates waiting for you to find them. No matter what you believe, finding a woman who makes you feel happy and loved is probably something that is high on your list.
6 Tips To Help You Attract And Keep The Perfect Woman
If you want to find the perfect woman for you, then there are some things you need to do in order to attract and keep her. If you do these things, you will not only find the best woman for you, you will find her quicker than many other men.
Use the following 6 tips to your advantage!
1. Get Out Of Your Comfort Zone
You cannot just sit back and wait for the perfect woman to fall in your lap. Life doesn’t work that way.
Just as you can’t get the perfect job without getting out there and looking for it and taking action towards getting it, you also can’t get the perfect woman without getting out there and taking action on finding her.
For a lot of men, this is going to suck because interacting with women can be uncomfortable. It is much easier to sit at home and get on your computer than it is to go out and physically meet women. But if you want to find the perfect woman for you, then you need to get in the middle of as many woman as possible to increase your chances of finding one that is meant for you in this moment.
The truth is you may meet the perfect woman in a coffee shop or a library or at school or at a bar or at a restaurant or even in a convenience store. But, you have to be willing to go out to these places and keep your eyes open for a woman that interests you, and then approach her when you see her. And, that’s where the comfort zone will really be stretched.
Don’t let an opportunity pass you by to approach a woman you think is a good fit for you. The more you push past your fear and nerves, the more rewarded you will be.
2. Enjoy Time Spent With Women You DON’T Want
It is important to know what you DON’T want in a woman. Many men accept a woman who is a bad fit into their life and suffer the consequences of that until they get the courage to leave her. That is not what you want to do if you are looking for the perfect woman.
However, you should spend some time with women that you obviously don’t want because the more time you spend with them, the more clear you get on what you DO want. This is an interesting concept to understand in finding the perfect woman.
Let’s say you go on a date, and the woman is obviously shallow and egotistical, which is something you don’t want. Take the time to get to know her anywase. Really listen to her and notice the traits that you don’t like. Don’t judge them, just be aware of them.
While you may understand why you don’t like her traits, let her words, actions, and energy help you understand exactly why you don’t want a woman like that. For example, she brings you down and makes you feel bad about life.
The more you understand why you don’t want that type of woman in your life, the more you will be able to understand what type of woman you really DO want in your life.
The bottom line is that when you know exactly what you want, you are more likely to attract it into your life.
3. Think Of Loving Relationships
Do you know a couple who seems to have the perfect relationship? Hold the positive energy of loving relationships that you have seen in your life. Feel the energy as you think about the perfect woman for you.
The more you hold that energy, and understand the positive power it has, the more likely you are to look for that energy – and yes, attract that type of relationship to you.
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4. Learn From The Negative Relationships You’ve Witnessed
Many times we witness unhealthy relationships and then imitate those relationships ourselves. How many times have you seen someone who is in the exact same unhealthy relationship that their parents were in? Probably many items!
The problem is that when we don’t understand exactly why those negative relationships were unhealthy and not good for us, we hold them in our memory as being okay. For instance, if your mother liked to complain in a loud voice, you may be attracted to a woman who also complains in a loud voice. Why? Not because she is like your mother, but because she offers a comfortable trait that you are used to.
Unfortunately, that complaining (and the loud voice that went with it) may have contributed negatively to your parent’s relationship. Therefore, just because it feels comfortable, it doesn’t mean that it is right.
Go through your history and think about the negative relationships you have witnessed directly in your life.
Try to understand what traits contributed to the unhealthy issues that arose in that relationship. The more you jump into the waters of what makes a relationship unhealthy, the less likely you will be to pick a woman who will contribute to an unhealthy relationship.
5. Don’t Play Make Believe
Please, please, please be yourself around women! Stop pretending to be someone you are not. Stop pretending to be someone you think women want to have in their lives.
You have to be yourself if you want to find the perfect woman for you. There is no way around it!
If you find a woman you really like, and you play games with her by pretending to be someone you are not, treating her in a way that you wouldn’t normally treat a woman, or use some pickup strategy that you heard from a dating coach, you could ruin your chances with her for good.
But, when you are yourself, you can easily find a woman who likes you for you! That is the kind of woman you want in your life for the long run, so make sure you are authentic with women right from the beginning.
By the way: You have flaws, just like everyone. If you try to hide them, they will eventually come out! If you hide them until that point, a woman will be surprised and possibly disappointed.
6. Get Busy Living Your Perfect Life!
Are you waiting to until you find a woman who likes travel to go travelling? Why?
You can have a fulfilling life without a woman by your side, and when you are feeling good about life, you are more likely to attract a woman who makes you feel even better about life – the perfect woman.
A woman will not make you more motivated, happier, more fun, or more successful. You do all of those things by yourself, whether you have a woman in your life or not. So, why sit around and wait for love before you go out and do what you want. It just doesn’t make any sense.
As a bonus, living a great life that is full of laughter, success, and fun, will help you be more attractive to a wider range of women. Remember that the next time you think that you need to find love before you can be happy, fulfilled, or whatever.